Tuesday, 27 June 2017
BIBLE EMERGENCY NUMBERS
☎📞When in sorrow, call John 14
☎📞When men fail you, call Psalm 27
☎📞When you have sinned, call Psalm 51
☎📞When you worry, call Matthew 6:19-34
☎📞In danger, Psalm 91
☎📞When God seems far away, call Psalm 139
☎📞When your faith needs stirring, call Hebrews 11
☎📞When you are lonely and fearful, call Psalm 23
☎📞When you grow bitter and critical, call 1 Cor 13
☎📞You feel down and out, call Romans 8:31-39
☎📞You want peace and rest, Matthew 11:25-30
☎📞When the world seems bigger than God, call Psalm 90
☎📞When you want Christian assurance, call Romans 8:1-30
☎📞When you leave home for labor or travel, call Psalm 121
☎📞When your prayers grow narrow or selfish, call Psalm 67
☎📞When you want courage for a task, call Joshua 1
☎📞When you think of investments/ returns, call Mark 10
☎📞How to get along with fellowmen, Romans 12
☎📞For great invention/ opportunity, Isaiah 55
☎📞For Paul's secret to happiness, Col 3:12-17
☎📞For idea of Chrisitanity,call 2 Cor 5:15-19
☎📞Depressed. Psalm 27
☎📞To be fruitful, John 15
☎📞If your pocketbook is empty, call Psalm 37
☎📞Losing confidence in people, 1 Cor 13
☎📞If people seem unkind,call John 15
☎📞If discouraged about your work, Psalm 126
☎📞If you find the world growing small and you great, call Psalm 19.
🔴 Please try it and you shall see the glory of God.
THE TRUTH ABOUT LIFE.
............................................
1. I fail to understand why many girls of nowadays can
drink like their dads, but they can't cook like their
moms!
2. I nearly fainted yesterday; I asked an old man, "Even
after 90 years, you still call your wife 'Darling', 'Honey',
'Love'. What's the secret?" . OLD MAN: "I forgot her
name 10 years ago and I'm scared to ask her"
3. Welcome to Nigeria where Jesus sends you a
WhatsApp text and threatens to kill you if you don't
share it
4. Good sex can make a man apologise for anything he
didn't do, he will be like "Baby, sorry for Mandela's
death"
5. I don't know the spirit that comes with bottled
water, Whenever a black man buys it, he starts
behaving like he is the richest man in the community.
6. Girls be pointing out spelling mistakes on social
network yet they cant point out the real father to their
kids
7. If you are a woman with beauty and no brains, it's
your private parts that suffers the most.
8. Just because Rihanna doesn't wear a bra, doesn't
mean you have to copy her and show us nipples that
are pointing at your shoes.
9. So you walk with a guitar because you are an up
coming artist
Have you ever seen an upcoming prostitute walking
with a bed?
10. My girlfriend is only allowed three guy friends. The
father, the son and the Holy spirit.
11. That moment when you join a porn group and find
that your dad is one of the Admins. gbese
re o
12. Two reasons I dont allow my girlfriend to touch my
iPhone 7
1. I dont have a girlfriend
2. I dont have an iPhone 7
13. Bleaching your skin till you shine brighter than your
future is not a problem, the problem is having White
Face, Yellow Hands, Chocolate Lips, and Black
Legs..My sister what are you..Zebra?
15. If you've been faithful all your relationships and
none of them worked out .. cheat for a change..
16. With the increase in the rate of fornication, If i
were God ,the next generation kids would receive their
reproductive organs on their wedding night..NO
WEDDING NO ORGANS
17. The phone that I bought with my own money is
now correcting my English....This is witchcraft in
Technology.
18. Women are like police they can have all the
evidence in the world but they want you to confess it
with your mouth.
They will be like "Are you cheating on me?".
My sister do you expect him to say Yes?
19. Growing old is compulsory - growing up is optional.
20. A bitter woman says ALL men are the same, but a
wise woman decides to stop choosing the same type
of Men
21. In Africa, saloons are like gossip stadiums
22. My sister,get married to a short man and if he
cheats on you just put his phone on top of a fridge
until he behaves
23. All I hear always is, "No sex before marriage." If
that was God's plan, then you would receive your penis
or vagina on your wedding day.
24. Engineers are so lonely that even GF means
Grounds Floor to them
25. Lionel Messi didn't just wake up and become the
best player in the world he trained...
So if your girl is good in bed i got news for you....
26. No one's gonna die if their partner leaves them
..Remember ,It's a relationship not a Lung
27. You broke up with a guy from your hood then date
another one from your hood & you say you've moved
on! No my sister you're just moving around
28. Most of the guys that say they don't date fat girls
have fat mothers. Be humble like your dad.
29. If you are dating a beautiful girl,know that a
minimum of 3 guys per day try their luck on her,which
makes 21 guys per week,84 guys per month,1008 per
year..now tell me,can your girl say NO 1008 TIMES?
30. When you are too single that even when you type
"kissing" auto correct changes it to "kidding." May your
story change in 2017
31. My High School Teacher Taught Me Most Of The
Lies I Tell Today, Back Then She'll Tell Me To Write A
Letter To My Uncle Abroad When She Knows My Uncle
Is In The Village!
NJOY YOUR DAY
and if after reading this post you didn't like and comment then your case is worst than that of a 90 year old woman who attempted abortion...
1. I fail to understand why many girls of nowadays can
drink like their dads, but they can't cook like their
moms!
2. I nearly fainted yesterday; I asked an old man, "Even
after 90 years, you still call your wife 'Darling', 'Honey',
'Love'. What's the secret?" . OLD MAN: "I forgot her
name 10 years ago and I'm scared to ask her"
3. Welcome to Nigeria where Jesus sends you a
WhatsApp text and threatens to kill you if you don't
share it
4. Good sex can make a man apologise for anything he
didn't do, he will be like "Baby, sorry for Mandela's
death"
5. I don't know the spirit that comes with bottled
water, Whenever a black man buys it, he starts
behaving like he is the richest man in the community.
6. Girls be pointing out spelling mistakes on social
network yet they cant point out the real father to their
kids
7. If you are a woman with beauty and no brains, it's
your private parts that suffers the most.
8. Just because Rihanna doesn't wear a bra, doesn't
mean you have to copy her and show us nipples that
are pointing at your shoes.
9. So you walk with a guitar because you are an up
coming artist
Have you ever seen an upcoming prostitute walking
with a bed?
10. My girlfriend is only allowed three guy friends. The
father, the son and the Holy spirit.
11. That moment when you join a porn group and find
that your dad is one of the Admins. gbese
re o
12. Two reasons I dont allow my girlfriend to touch my
iPhone 7
1. I dont have a girlfriend
2. I dont have an iPhone 7
13. Bleaching your skin till you shine brighter than your
future is not a problem, the problem is having White
Face, Yellow Hands, Chocolate Lips, and Black
Legs..My sister what are you..Zebra?
15. If you've been faithful all your relationships and
none of them worked out .. cheat for a change..
16. With the increase in the rate of fornication, If i
were God ,the next generation kids would receive their
reproductive organs on their wedding night..NO
WEDDING NO ORGANS
17. The phone that I bought with my own money is
now correcting my English....This is witchcraft in
Technology.
18. Women are like police they can have all the
evidence in the world but they want you to confess it
with your mouth.
They will be like "Are you cheating on me?".
My sister do you expect him to say Yes?
19. Growing old is compulsory - growing up is optional.
20. A bitter woman says ALL men are the same, but a
wise woman decides to stop choosing the same type
of Men
21. In Africa, saloons are like gossip stadiums
22. My sister,get married to a short man and if he
cheats on you just put his phone on top of a fridge
until he behaves
23. All I hear always is, "No sex before marriage." If
that was God's plan, then you would receive your penis
or vagina on your wedding day.
24. Engineers are so lonely that even GF means
Grounds Floor to them
25. Lionel Messi didn't just wake up and become the
best player in the world he trained...
So if your girl is good in bed i got news for you....
26. No one's gonna die if their partner leaves them
..Remember ,It's a relationship not a Lung
27. You broke up with a guy from your hood then date
another one from your hood & you say you've moved
on! No my sister you're just moving around
28. Most of the guys that say they don't date fat girls
have fat mothers. Be humble like your dad.
29. If you are dating a beautiful girl,know that a
minimum of 3 guys per day try their luck on her,which
makes 21 guys per week,84 guys per month,1008 per
year..now tell me,can your girl say NO 1008 TIMES?
30. When you are too single that even when you type
"kissing" auto correct changes it to "kidding." May your
story change in 2017
31. My High School Teacher Taught Me Most Of The
Lies I Tell Today, Back Then She'll Tell Me To Write A
Letter To My Uncle Abroad When She Knows My Uncle
Is In The Village!
NJOY YOUR DAY
and if after reading this post you didn't like and comment then your case is worst than that of a 90 year old woman who attempted abortion...
Tuesday, 13 June 2017
CAUSES OF CIVILIZATIONS
The Negative Impact of Civilization on the Marital Institutions of Africa have become an irredeemable vices keeping to many African ladies out marriage. God clearly stated in his marital counsel to bride that she should be completely submissive and be subjected to her husband in all things and situations. Ephesians 5:22 "Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord" However, the civilization of the end time says women are equal to the men most especially in Christianity where the function of civilization is carried beyond the boundaries, the Christian ladies are more morally loose and wayward than the musilim ladies, today a Christian career woman prefers her freedom than to be submissive to a man. It is a general believe that what a man can do a woman can do better and that the woman is equal to the man. Of course, while I'm not saying that the man should retard the progress of the woman no man will live with an in subordinate woman in the house as wife. Christianity embraces the the Negative Impact more than any other religious beliefs the percentage of unmarried Christian ladies is more compared to any other religion. An egoistic lady who is arrogant, rude and proud can never be a man's wife rather she should be prepared to live a solitary life. Take to the streets smoking and drinking because what a man can do a woman can better. Most Ladies hav
e thrown caution to the winds long ago, all in the name of beauty and civilization. The Negative Impact of Civilization has taken its on the African socio cultural values so much that there is no virtue anymore, ladies now walk the streets half naked and in some cases like mad people dressed in rags in the name of fashion. Even the whites who originate these crazy concepts are not as mad as their African counterparts. Today so many ladies are stranded moving from church to church seeking solutions to self created problem of missing manners, characters and Africa socio cultural values of good home training. Well, with God all things are possible but not the modern churches of worldly behaviours which are ubiquitous.
THE ELEMENTS OF TRUE LOVE (PART B)
True love does not have any barrier , true love does not discriminate at all. Here are some criteria of true love
(1) Fondness:-..... If you are not fond of the person you claim to love, you do not want people to know that you are involved with him, you are only after behind closed doors affairs and you only love him when he receives his salary, then it it not a genuine love.
(2) Patience:-..... Is your partner pestering you for sex? Has he said he cannot wait and threaten to drop you? Do not give in. That is to tell you. If you give in to him. He will still drop you anyway.
(3) Submission:-...... Love does not parade itself, is not puffed up" 1cor 13:14. Love is already to accede to the wishes of the other party. It is not proud, it does into parade itself. It is not waiting to say, " You said it" if not you". It is ready to say let's go ahead if that is how you want it.
(4) Commitment:-..... True love involved commitment, spirit, soul and body. It gives everything to the relationship, write letters,send emails, make phone calls, give gifts,pay visits, share the plight of the partner, look forward to meeting and ready to call for reconciliation whenever there is misunderstanding. It is deeply committed to the other party.
(5) Sacrifice:-..... True love is only committed to the other party and also is ready to make sacrifices. In times of money and gifts.
(6) Giving :-.... For God so loved the world and gave us his only begotten son.... John 3:16 Love involved giving , true love emphasises giving, infatuation and lust emphasizes receiving. If you are in a relationship because of what you gain from it, then you are not in love. if you are involved with somebody who is only interested in receiving from you, then he or she is not in love with you. Love is not robber flee from parasitic lovers.
(7) Kindness:-..... Lobe suffer long and is kind 1cor 13:4. Kindness is the foundation of love. In fact, an author simply defines love as a kind action given to under serve people.
(8) Positive Thinking:-.... Thinks no evil 1cor 13:5. Love will never think of how to punish, revenge, beat the other party. True love will never think of pouring acid on estranged lovers. It will never imagine evil things.
(9) Forbearance:-..... Bears all things 1cor 13:7. There are two Bears in love. BEAR and FORBEAR. He is ready to bear the inadequacies of the other partner and forbear errors and mistakes, therefore nagging is never fond on true love. If you discover that your partner always nag on virtually everything you do, you better be careful. Love does not nag but infatuation does.
(10) Trust:-..... Belive all things " Love believes all things because it has absolute trust in the other party. If you do not trust that lady, stop wasting your time with her. If that man does not trust you , it shows he is not in love with you.
(11) Openness:- ... True love is no secretive, it is open. It tells the other party about her past, no matter how ugly it may be.
(12) Meekness and Gentleness:-..... True love is meek and gentle, it is not wicked. It is not aggressive, and is not envious. A man slaps you in anger during courtship and still claim to love you. If you go ahead to marry him, you have given yourself cheaply to a lifetime of beating and bashing. Love is meek, gentle, not easily provoked, open to correction.
If all these criteria are missing in your love affairs, I am afraid it is not love. Is either infatuation or lust. Beware ! Do not rush into marriage and live miserable life. Open your eyes and be wise.
Marriage involves both WEDDING and WELDING.
Wedding is for one day while welding is for a lifetime. Wedding involves joining of hands in the public while welding involves joining of heart in the secret. It involves fusion of two different personalities to form another distinct personality in the presence of God. It takes hearts to weld two different iron together; it takes love to weld two different people together. It takes love to have FUSION without a JOINT.
(1) Fondness:-..... If you are not fond of the person you claim to love, you do not want people to know that you are involved with him, you are only after behind closed doors affairs and you only love him when he receives his salary, then it it not a genuine love.
(2) Patience:-..... Is your partner pestering you for sex? Has he said he cannot wait and threaten to drop you? Do not give in. That is to tell you. If you give in to him. He will still drop you anyway.
(3) Submission:-...... Love does not parade itself, is not puffed up" 1cor 13:14. Love is already to accede to the wishes of the other party. It is not proud, it does into parade itself. It is not waiting to say, " You said it" if not you". It is ready to say let's go ahead if that is how you want it.
(4) Commitment:-..... True love involved commitment, spirit, soul and body. It gives everything to the relationship, write letters,send emails, make phone calls, give gifts,pay visits, share the plight of the partner, look forward to meeting and ready to call for reconciliation whenever there is misunderstanding. It is deeply committed to the other party.
(5) Sacrifice:-..... True love is only committed to the other party and also is ready to make sacrifices. In times of money and gifts.
(6) Giving :-.... For God so loved the world and gave us his only begotten son.... John 3:16 Love involved giving , true love emphasises giving, infatuation and lust emphasizes receiving. If you are in a relationship because of what you gain from it, then you are not in love. if you are involved with somebody who is only interested in receiving from you, then he or she is not in love with you. Love is not robber flee from parasitic lovers.
(7) Kindness:-..... Lobe suffer long and is kind 1cor 13:4. Kindness is the foundation of love. In fact, an author simply defines love as a kind action given to under serve people.
(8) Positive Thinking:-.... Thinks no evil 1cor 13:5. Love will never think of how to punish, revenge, beat the other party. True love will never think of pouring acid on estranged lovers. It will never imagine evil things.
(9) Forbearance:-..... Bears all things 1cor 13:7. There are two Bears in love. BEAR and FORBEAR. He is ready to bear the inadequacies of the other partner and forbear errors and mistakes, therefore nagging is never fond on true love. If you discover that your partner always nag on virtually everything you do, you better be careful. Love does not nag but infatuation does.
(10) Trust:-..... Belive all things " Love believes all things because it has absolute trust in the other party. If you do not trust that lady, stop wasting your time with her. If that man does not trust you , it shows he is not in love with you.
(11) Openness:- ... True love is no secretive, it is open. It tells the other party about her past, no matter how ugly it may be.
(12) Meekness and Gentleness:-..... True love is meek and gentle, it is not wicked. It is not aggressive, and is not envious. A man slaps you in anger during courtship and still claim to love you. If you go ahead to marry him, you have given yourself cheaply to a lifetime of beating and bashing. Love is meek, gentle, not easily provoked, open to correction.
If all these criteria are missing in your love affairs, I am afraid it is not love. Is either infatuation or lust. Beware ! Do not rush into marriage and live miserable life. Open your eyes and be wise.
Marriage involves both WEDDING and WELDING.
Wedding is for one day while welding is for a lifetime. Wedding involves joining of hands in the public while welding involves joining of heart in the secret. It involves fusion of two different personalities to form another distinct personality in the presence of God. It takes hearts to weld two different iron together; it takes love to weld two different people together. It takes love to have FUSION without a JOINT.
ELEMENTS OF TRUE LOVE. (PART A)
Before you can be said to possess true love, a lot of things must be in place. They are:
(1) Truth:- ....but rejoice in truth" 1cor 13:6. If you find it difficult to say the whole truth to your partner, that means you don't have a genuine love for him or her. A basic foundation of true love is truth. If you discover that your so called lover has been telling lies, it is a pointer to the fact that he or she does not really love you.
(2) Acceptance:-.... Do you say you love somebody and all you want him or her to do is to change everything about him/her to suit your purpose? She is dark, you want her to tone or bleach her body abit.. If she is too fat, you want her to slim down.. His room is too small small, you want him to pack to a bigger space. This only shows you are not in love.. True love accepts. Infatuation and lust want change at all cost from the other party. If you are not ready to accept your partner as he or she is or your partner want you to change almost everything about yourself, it points to lack of love.
(3) Compassion:-..... Love is affection mixed with compassion for that fellow or the tears of that Lady does not touch you. It shows you have no love.
(4) Respect:-.... The man who claim to love you has no simple respect for you, he treats you anyhow and even embarrass you publicly. It shows you are just deceiving yourself. There is honor in love. True love respects and avoid hurting the other party.
(5) Service:-..... True love seek to serve, not to be served. The questions is? What can I do for you? Not, what can you do for me? True love is ready to go the extra mile to serve the other party. But infatuation and lust seek to be served.
(6) Selflessness:-.... Lust is always selfish, it want sex to self gratification not minding the other party. True love on the other hand , is selfless, looks for ways to satisfy the other party and avoid selfish acts.
(7) Forgiveness:-.... Is not easily provoked 1cor 13:5. True love is not easily provoked be when is provoked is ready to forgive immediately.
(8) Excitement:-...... True love looks forward to seeing the other party again.she is unhappy to see him go, not because of money or sex. In fact, she is ready to pay his fare during visits! If you are engaged to somebody who is not excited to see you and is not proud to introduced you to friends and family members, you have not had a lover.
(9) Righteousness:-..... Purity is the hallmark of true love. It doesn't involved in secret kissing, dark-place meetings, street corner romance, illicit sex, embrace that embarrasses God, unholy fondling, necking and immoral practices. True love has no secrets and is as bold as lion. If holiness is lacking in your relationship, then it is not true love. It is lust, no matter how you feel about it. If your pastor must not know what you are doing behind the closed doors, if your parents must not hear about what you are doing with that guy, then it is not love. It may be hard to accept but the fact still remains that, it is lust not love. Love does not rejoice in inquity.... 1 cor 13:6
(10) Peace:-..... Have you lost your peace because you are in love? Has fear, guilt, regret and worry enveloped you because you are deeply in love. Then it is not God's type of love..God is not the author of confusion but of peace.
(1) Truth:- ....but rejoice in truth" 1cor 13:6. If you find it difficult to say the whole truth to your partner, that means you don't have a genuine love for him or her. A basic foundation of true love is truth. If you discover that your so called lover has been telling lies, it is a pointer to the fact that he or she does not really love you.
(2) Acceptance:-.... Do you say you love somebody and all you want him or her to do is to change everything about him/her to suit your purpose? She is dark, you want her to tone or bleach her body abit.. If she is too fat, you want her to slim down.. His room is too small small, you want him to pack to a bigger space. This only shows you are not in love.. True love accepts. Infatuation and lust want change at all cost from the other party. If you are not ready to accept your partner as he or she is or your partner want you to change almost everything about yourself, it points to lack of love.
(3) Compassion:-..... Love is affection mixed with compassion for that fellow or the tears of that Lady does not touch you. It shows you have no love.
(4) Respect:-.... The man who claim to love you has no simple respect for you, he treats you anyhow and even embarrass you publicly. It shows you are just deceiving yourself. There is honor in love. True love respects and avoid hurting the other party.
(5) Service:-..... True love seek to serve, not to be served. The questions is? What can I do for you? Not, what can you do for me? True love is ready to go the extra mile to serve the other party. But infatuation and lust seek to be served.
(6) Selflessness:-.... Lust is always selfish, it want sex to self gratification not minding the other party. True love on the other hand , is selfless, looks for ways to satisfy the other party and avoid selfish acts.
(7) Forgiveness:-.... Is not easily provoked 1cor 13:5. True love is not easily provoked be when is provoked is ready to forgive immediately.
(8) Excitement:-...... True love looks forward to seeing the other party again.she is unhappy to see him go, not because of money or sex. In fact, she is ready to pay his fare during visits! If you are engaged to somebody who is not excited to see you and is not proud to introduced you to friends and family members, you have not had a lover.
(9) Righteousness:-..... Purity is the hallmark of true love. It doesn't involved in secret kissing, dark-place meetings, street corner romance, illicit sex, embrace that embarrasses God, unholy fondling, necking and immoral practices. True love has no secrets and is as bold as lion. If holiness is lacking in your relationship, then it is not true love. It is lust, no matter how you feel about it. If your pastor must not know what you are doing behind the closed doors, if your parents must not hear about what you are doing with that guy, then it is not love. It may be hard to accept but the fact still remains that, it is lust not love. Love does not rejoice in inquity.... 1 cor 13:6
(10) Peace:-..... Have you lost your peace because you are in love? Has fear, guilt, regret and worry enveloped you because you are deeply in love. Then it is not God's type of love..God is not the author of confusion but of peace.
Monday, 12 June 2017
I KNOW
I found this very inspiring. I hope you do too.
I took my cloth to my tailor and asked him to fix the little opening near the pocket.
The man turned the cloth inside out and then began to TEAR the pocket with his hands... Hah! I was like, "I said you should sew, not tear".
So I shouted, 'You are tearing my cloth o'.But he replied "I KNOW".
Those two words sank into me like a heavy stone sinks in water. I couldn't talk again.
He's the tailor, and I'm just a customer. Even though I couldn't relate tearing with sewing but the Tailor says "I KNOW".
God is saying, 'I KNOW'.
He hears your complaints.
Father i need a job, its been long i left school.... "I KNOW"
Father, My fiancee just left me... 'I KNOW'.
I have no money to pay for my rent... 'I KNOW'
I have no money to cater for my needs... 'I KNOW'
I am waiting to have children....I KNOW
I need a husband....I know
I can't pay school fees.....I know
I just lost my job and i have a family.... "I KNOW"
So many times when the Lord is fixing us, He starts by 'tearing' us. Tearing our confidence in ourselves, Tearing all our philosophies, Tearing our pride and fake humility, Tearing the things we call dear and giving us the truly dear things.
The only thing necessary is wisdom. Wisdom to know when it is the Lord and when it isn't the Lord. The devil tears to KILL, God tears to FIX. God tears the old to give you the new.
God's tearing fire only refines His own. God's tearing approaches only yields the peaceable fruit of Righteousness.
So in reality, God tears no man, He only makes. We call it TEARING, He calls it MAKING. We call it BREAKING, He calls it BUILDING. He knows you have need even before you ask. That's why when we complain... He responds thus: 'I KNOW'.
For I KNOW the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.
-JEREMIAH 29:11. Cast all your burdens on Him for He care for you
I took my cloth to my tailor and asked him to fix the little opening near the pocket.
The man turned the cloth inside out and then began to TEAR the pocket with his hands... Hah! I was like, "I said you should sew, not tear".
So I shouted, 'You are tearing my cloth o'.But he replied "I KNOW".
Those two words sank into me like a heavy stone sinks in water. I couldn't talk again.
He's the tailor, and I'm just a customer. Even though I couldn't relate tearing with sewing but the Tailor says "I KNOW".
God is saying, 'I KNOW'.
He hears your complaints.
Father i need a job, its been long i left school.... "I KNOW"
Father, My fiancee just left me... 'I KNOW'.
I have no money to pay for my rent... 'I KNOW'
I have no money to cater for my needs... 'I KNOW'
I am waiting to have children....I KNOW
I need a husband....I know
I can't pay school fees.....I know
I just lost my job and i have a family.... "I KNOW"
So many times when the Lord is fixing us, He starts by 'tearing' us. Tearing our confidence in ourselves, Tearing all our philosophies, Tearing our pride and fake humility, Tearing the things we call dear and giving us the truly dear things.
The only thing necessary is wisdom. Wisdom to know when it is the Lord and when it isn't the Lord. The devil tears to KILL, God tears to FIX. God tears the old to give you the new.
God's tearing fire only refines His own. God's tearing approaches only yields the peaceable fruit of Righteousness.
So in reality, God tears no man, He only makes. We call it TEARING, He calls it MAKING. We call it BREAKING, He calls it BUILDING. He knows you have need even before you ask. That's why when we complain... He responds thus: 'I KNOW'.
For I KNOW the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.
-JEREMIAH 29:11. Cast all your burdens on Him for He care for you
THE POWER OF "I AM SORRY"
*I am sorry,* a short but mighty sentence.
If you wish to live long, don't joke with this short sentence, *I am sorry.* Do you know how many people who had gone to early grave because they neglected the therapeutic power of *I am sorry.*
Most of the troubles in most homes are heightened because wives are too big to say *I am sorry* to their husbands and you can trust the ego of husbands in saying same to their wives..
Quarrel lingers between friends because no party wants to say *I am sorry.* Each says or asks, why should I be the first to say *I am sorry?* He or she would beat his or her chest and utter the ego phrase, *a whole me!*
Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the part of the world where saying *I am sorry* is a hard nut to crack while curses are easily unleashed..
Welcome to the part of the world where people refer to a person who says *I am sorry* in a midst of a rift as a *weaker sex*: one who is not man enough; one who is foolish..
Welcome to Africa where saying *I am sorry* is tougher than forcing a donkey to pass through a needle hole..
All of us are victims of this discussion. We have lost valuable assets, money and even lives because of this cheap and affordable sentence *I am sorry.* It simply cost only a breath of speech..
Have you ever wondered why domestic violence is less pronounced in the western world? It is simply because they understand the efficacy of *I am sorry.*
Husbands say it to their wives and even children whenever they err, wives and children do the same and life goes on fine..
Friends, this is simply a piece to encourage us to cultivate a habit of saying *I am sorry.* It is difficult but readily affordable..
Learn how to say *I AM SORRY* even if you are right..
If this message offends you in one way or the other, *I am sorry pls*
If you wish to live long, don't joke with this short sentence, *I am sorry.* Do you know how many people who had gone to early grave because they neglected the therapeutic power of *I am sorry.*
Most of the troubles in most homes are heightened because wives are too big to say *I am sorry* to their husbands and you can trust the ego of husbands in saying same to their wives..
Quarrel lingers between friends because no party wants to say *I am sorry.* Each says or asks, why should I be the first to say *I am sorry?* He or she would beat his or her chest and utter the ego phrase, *a whole me!*
Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the part of the world where saying *I am sorry* is a hard nut to crack while curses are easily unleashed..
Welcome to the part of the world where people refer to a person who says *I am sorry* in a midst of a rift as a *weaker sex*: one who is not man enough; one who is foolish..
Welcome to Africa where saying *I am sorry* is tougher than forcing a donkey to pass through a needle hole..
All of us are victims of this discussion. We have lost valuable assets, money and even lives because of this cheap and affordable sentence *I am sorry.* It simply cost only a breath of speech..
Have you ever wondered why domestic violence is less pronounced in the western world? It is simply because they understand the efficacy of *I am sorry.*
Husbands say it to their wives and even children whenever they err, wives and children do the same and life goes on fine..
Friends, this is simply a piece to encourage us to cultivate a habit of saying *I am sorry.* It is difficult but readily affordable..
Learn how to say *I AM SORRY* even if you are right..
If this message offends you in one way or the other, *I am sorry pls*
Sunday, 11 June 2017
Transparency is a must
Food for thought C: "If you discover after an issue or two that the lady or the man you marry had a child while in college and didn't tell you before and after marriage will you distrust your partner for the act or react negatively? Ladies and gentlemen, I want you to understand foremost that he or she didn't disclose the past for the fear of losing your relationship. One it is not right not to be open about the past but it is not also an issue at this particular point of time. I do know that if an armed robbers come into your house and forcefully rapped your wife at a gun point, you won't say she is unfaithful to you, and that act or incident will reduce your love for her. If truly you love the person you marry deeply, the past becomes immaterial no matter what is discovered later, it is better. However, it is better to be sincere and open from the start if the man or woman is yours by divine arrangements he or she will love you the more and where possible take in the child and trained him/her with love. The past honestly should not be used as a yard stick because the person may have successfully put past behind him or her remorsefully so don't dwell on it or make it a recurring decimal in your discussions. True love will always overlook the past and concentrate on the present and future. A prostitute of some years back maybe be a sincerely born again child of God who had be forgiven by God made whole in the blood of Jesus Christ, who then are you to hold on to her forgiven past. When God himself says in Hebrews 8:12 For I will be merciful to their unrighteousness, and their sins and their iniquities will I remember no more. Whatever is kept away from your
knowledge before and after marriage is not meant for your consumption and if you eventually discover handle it with utmost maturity, and decency of character. The past mistakes are in the past and should be left alone in the past because there is nothing you and I can do about it. Love they covereth all things. Don't destroy the home you have laboured hard to build because of a single mistake of your partner either of the past or the moment. The Lord will be your wisdom at this juncture of your marital journey.
Saturday, 10 June 2017
Hot Tempered man...
It will be most unfortunate for a woman to marry a man who can not control his temper in anger, Ephesians 4:26 says be ye angry and sin not, it will be a worst mistake and serious calamity of the highest order for a woman to marry a man who is hot tempered. The day a man lift up his hand against the wife he marries is the day he ceases to have a wife in his home but a flat mate. No woman could be most unfortunate than the one who marries a man who is never happy at her progress, who is envious of his wife success and seeks to retard or mitigate against the success of his wife. Some men with egoistic evil mind cannot stand their wives doing better than them in life, such a husband is satanic and an enemy. A man who can not provide for the needs of his wife the Bible says is worst than an unbeliever, a man who drinks, smokes, and womanizes and would hardly ever spend quality time with his wife has made the wife a widow. Such women are not only unlucky but are also aggressive in the home and in the society in general. An unfortunate woman in position of authority is likely to be hostile & very unfriendly. A man who does not understand that his wife is not a perfect being and prone to mistakes and is not ready to accommodate, tolerate and overlook the individual differences is an error and an apology. A woman who marries a man who can't stay with her without complaints is an unfortunate wife. A woman who marries a weakling man is an unfortunate woman. Finally, a man who starves his wife of sex has made her a wounded soul and mind.
So terrible
Friday, 9 June 2017
Comparison of Islamic and Christianity Dressing
Musilim ladies are better dressed than Christian ladies, the immoral fashions you see in church are never acceptable in mosque. The Christians ladies are more wayward in terms of social life. While I'm not making a case for Islamic ladies we must admit that the percentage of unmarried Christian ladies are higher than that of musilim ladies. It most common with Christian ladies to dress half naked in the name of civilization and fashion. Islam has over the years make very strong cases over the issues of imported western culture unchecked by Africa values. I think Pastors should join their Islamic cleric counterparts to wage war against immorality of our ladies.
Submissiveness is the key to marriage
Why Most Ladies Remain Single Even At An Expiring Age..
Firstly: is the confusion of choice, where a lady has many suitors she may become confused as to which of these suitors will be the best for her, what is needed here is prayer with fasting for God's leading.
Secondly: Some are too proud to accept the will of God for their lives, because the man at that particular time may not have all the lady's heart desires, or meet all the conditions of her dream man. Again this could make her loose the chance of getting married to the right person, and once a lady or man misses it at the start, this costly mistake will colour every aspect of her life. A lady is expected to follow her first mind and should not discuss this with all her friends, some of these issues are best dealt with in prayer.
Thirdly: Another reason why a lady may remain single is that of her beauty without manners, once a lady allows her beauty to get into her head she will find it difficult to be humble because she believes her beauty will last forever, no man marries a woman because she is flashy or beautiful, what every man is looking for in a woman is character, respect and good manners, not mary kay beauty, even when the right person comes she will be too busy with make up kits to recognize the divine presence. Fourtly: Bad company is another reason a lady may remain single for a long time, if a lady has friends who believed in clubbing and night life styles she will definitely have the problem of settling down with a man.
** Greed & over ambition could also be responsible for delayed marriage, if a lady has the habit of looking for a ready made man she may end up a loser at the end.
** Where a lady is not cultured, and well raised by her parents, and therefore cannot take care of a home, a man will cleverly disengaged from the relationship. No lady can use sex to hold a man down, not even pregnancy, every lady must know that marriage comes at a cost. You must be willing to pay the price of marriage because no man wants a rude and contentious woman for a wife.
**The Bible says it is better for a man to dwell in the wilderness than to dwell in a wide house with a brawling woman. A lady who is not ready to be submissive can't live under a man no matter how beautiful she is.
**Some are lazy and dirty these ones know that they are not wife materials and would rather go to the streets cover up their short comings which will later back fire on them. Therefore Ladies be humble so as to see a man that will build your own family with you on time.
Firstly: is the confusion of choice, where a lady has many suitors she may become confused as to which of these suitors will be the best for her, what is needed here is prayer with fasting for God's leading.
Secondly: Some are too proud to accept the will of God for their lives, because the man at that particular time may not have all the lady's heart desires, or meet all the conditions of her dream man. Again this could make her loose the chance of getting married to the right person, and once a lady or man misses it at the start, this costly mistake will colour every aspect of her life. A lady is expected to follow her first mind and should not discuss this with all her friends, some of these issues are best dealt with in prayer.
Thirdly: Another reason why a lady may remain single is that of her beauty without manners, once a lady allows her beauty to get into her head she will find it difficult to be humble because she believes her beauty will last forever, no man marries a woman because she is flashy or beautiful, what every man is looking for in a woman is character, respect and good manners, not mary kay beauty, even when the right person comes she will be too busy with make up kits to recognize the divine presence. Fourtly: Bad company is another reason a lady may remain single for a long time, if a lady has friends who believed in clubbing and night life styles she will definitely have the problem of settling down with a man.
** Greed & over ambition could also be responsible for delayed marriage, if a lady has the habit of looking for a ready made man she may end up a loser at the end.
** Where a lady is not cultured, and well raised by her parents, and therefore cannot take care of a home, a man will cleverly disengaged from the relationship. No lady can use sex to hold a man down, not even pregnancy, every lady must know that marriage comes at a cost. You must be willing to pay the price of marriage because no man wants a rude and contentious woman for a wife.
**The Bible says it is better for a man to dwell in the wilderness than to dwell in a wide house with a brawling woman. A lady who is not ready to be submissive can't live under a man no matter how beautiful she is.
**Some are lazy and dirty these ones know that they are not wife materials and would rather go to the streets cover up their short comings which will later back fire on them. Therefore Ladies be humble so as to see a man that will build your own family with you on time.
Thursday, 8 June 2017
The expectations of a woman.
Food for thought part B: What are the qualities a woman expects from a man in marriage, foremost, she wants to be able to trust the man, she wants 100% assurance of the man's love and attention. A woman wants to feel safe and protected by the man she marries, a woman expect the the man to be faithful sexually & morally, she wants him to be committed to her, and be gentle in all his approaches, no woman likes to be shouted at either in public or in private, hence no wise woman will argue with her husband in public or before visitors even when & where she knows that he is wrong, a woman does not like a man who raises his voice at her most especially in public, a does not expect the man to beat her for no reason, only a beast will raise his hand at a woman no matter what happens or that she may have done including bringing another man into her matrimonial bed, no woman expects her husband to beat for her such an action rather the man she should find out what is in their sexual life and amend the problem, the woman expect respect and honour from her husband, no woman likes it or expect her husband to look at another woman lustfully, or pay compliments to another woman's beauty in private or public this is totally unacceptable, a woman expect the man to be able to provide for her basic needs, feeding, clothing, cosmetics, footwear and above all pay very close attention to her hair, a woman does not expect a man to forget her Birthday, and the man is expected a month to her birthday to start making adequate preparations for her birthday, a woman expect surprises from a man, no woman likes to be abandoned in the home for the company of others, she expects the man to be with her in the kitchen, to be of help to her in all that she does, here a man who cannot employ a house help must be ready to wash his clothes and accessories and must also be of help to his wife in this regard, the domestic chores mopping of the floor, the dish, cleaning the the gass cooker are not exclusively jobs reserved for the woman a man is expected to be of help to his wife, a woman expect a man to pet her to sleep either by telling her a story, reading a story book to her, or singing her to sleep, a woman does not expect the man to pounce on her for sex rather she expects the man to lead her to it through a very long fore play to prepare her mind and body for the love making, a woman does not expect the man to get up from her or withdraw from her immediately after climax she wants the sensation to run through her completely before the man disengage from her, a woman expects a man to tell her every other minutes how much he loves her because she can't ever be tired of hearing that from the man's heart, a woman expect love messages, quick notes in her hand bags, under the pillow and hugs.
The expectations of a man.
Food for thought:.. What does a man expect from a woman in marriage, foremost, he wants total submission & respect from the woman he married, once a man is satisfied with the submissive spirit of a woman, the next on the line is 100% faithfulness sexually & morally& loyalty, if a woman could love a man with the above qualities she will be loved in return by the man with a unique sense of adoration, and he will always cherish, pamper & nurse her with a great tenderness, other qualities a man expects from a woman also includes quietness most especially in public, a porous woman is an embarrassments to her husband, worst still is a contentious woman who is unruly, rude, brawling& nagging one. A man expect a woman to be neat in& out, personal hygiene in terms of her undies, her tongue, and most especially her private part must shaved neatly 24/7, environmental cleanness, her bed linings, her kitchen, and ability to prepare good meals, a woman must be willing to help the husband manage his resources. Not to be extravagant in demand and spendings. If in a courtship the man discovered these qualities missing he will tactfully disengaged himself from the relationship no matter how fair and beautiful the lady may look because no man marries beauty but character. A man expects his wife to be romantic, sexually active, and not a bore on the bed, some women just lie down on the bed like a log of wood, nothing moves them, they are sort of impotent sexually this maybe due to over circumcision of the clitoris, in that case she should have clit intensifier Adam and Eve, a man expect his wife to be sexually alluring in the home, and not to forget herself and look old fashioned, you must remember what attracted you to the man in the first place, a man will begin to look for what is missing in his wife and marriage in another woman outside.
Wednesday, 7 June 2017
Take a Risk
1. Take risks in your life. If you win, you can lead; if you lose, you can guide.
2. People are not what they say but what they do; so judge them not from their words but from their actions.
3. When someone hurts you, don't feel bad because it's a law of nature that the tree that bears the sweetest fruits gets maximum number of stones.
4. Take whatever you can from your life because when life starts taking from you, it takes even your last breath.
5. In this world, people will always throw stones on the path of your success. It depends on what you make from them - a wall or a bridge.
6. Challenges make life interesting; overcoming them make life meaningful.
7. There is no joy in victory without running the risk of defeat.
8. A path without obstacles leads nowhere.
9. Past is a nice place to visit but certainly not a good place to stay.
10. You can't have a better tomorrow if you are thinking about yesterday all the time.
11. If what you did yesterday still looks big to you, then you haven't done much today.
12. If you don't build your dreams, someone else will hire you to build theirs.
13. If you don't climb the mountain; you can't view the plain.
14. Don't leave it idle - use your brain.
15. You are not paid for having brain, you are only rewarded for using it intelligently.
16. It is not what you don't have that limits you; it is what you have but don't know how to use.
17. What you fail to learn might teach you a lesson.
18. The difference between a corrupt person and an honest person is: The corrupt person has a price while the honest person has a value.
19. If you succeed in cheating someone, don't think that the person is a fool...... Realize that the person trusted you much more than you deserved.
20. Honesty is an expensive gift; don't expect it from cheap people.
This is very interesting post and I want all my friends and family to benefit.
2. People are not what they say but what they do; so judge them not from their words but from their actions.
3. When someone hurts you, don't feel bad because it's a law of nature that the tree that bears the sweetest fruits gets maximum number of stones.
4. Take whatever you can from your life because when life starts taking from you, it takes even your last breath.
5. In this world, people will always throw stones on the path of your success. It depends on what you make from them - a wall or a bridge.
6. Challenges make life interesting; overcoming them make life meaningful.
7. There is no joy in victory without running the risk of defeat.
8. A path without obstacles leads nowhere.
9. Past is a nice place to visit but certainly not a good place to stay.
10. You can't have a better tomorrow if you are thinking about yesterday all the time.
11. If what you did yesterday still looks big to you, then you haven't done much today.
12. If you don't build your dreams, someone else will hire you to build theirs.
13. If you don't climb the mountain; you can't view the plain.
14. Don't leave it idle - use your brain.
15. You are not paid for having brain, you are only rewarded for using it intelligently.
16. It is not what you don't have that limits you; it is what you have but don't know how to use.
17. What you fail to learn might teach you a lesson.
18. The difference between a corrupt person and an honest person is: The corrupt person has a price while the honest person has a value.
19. If you succeed in cheating someone, don't think that the person is a fool...... Realize that the person trusted you much more than you deserved.
20. Honesty is an expensive gift; don't expect it from cheap people.
This is very interesting post and I want all my friends and family to benefit.
Focus On Your Dreams By Controlling Your Time
When an eagle is on the prowl, it does not have time at that moment to check the views in other valley. This is Focusing on Time... Achievers have a strong sense of urgency.. Time is your most valuable personal source, use it wisely because it cannot be replaced.. Time management skills can be developed and perfected which will lead you on to greater productivity and performance. Here are some tips for daily time planning....
Create a daily " to do " list it out the night before.
List goals and set priorities in the order of A-B-C.... Do A's first...
Handle each piece of paper once daily.
Handle your mail priority... Unattended mail causes stress, set time aside for when you will open and attend to your mails, procrastination results in mails accumulating..
Set deadlines.... This will force you to accomplish projects quickly.
Think.... How can I do it better? Set quality time aside to think about creative ways to improve the performance of your organization.. Peak performance comes through pondering. This may well proved to be invaluable to you.. When you are relaxed brain storm your situation, you will be amazed at the ideas that will spring to light.
You don't have to attend every meeting..... Be very selective regarding meetings.. Probably about half of them don't needs your attendance, someone else can go in your place and give you the reports.
Control Visitors... This is a fast line and often in sharing and wasting time ... Can I have a moment of your time? Is the opening line that can interrupted your valuable time each day..
Invest your time where it pay most... Often we invest huge amount of time where there is little returns on the efforts. You may have to spend time doing some honest thinking to analyse your time investments. Do not waste your high energy hours, invest them where they will produce the highest pay off.
Delegate Responsibility..... Achievers make the most use of their time by sharing their workload.. Then you must allow your team to put their personal stamp on projects assigned to them.. try and set completion times for your accomplishments.
Create a daily " to do " list it out the night before.
List goals and set priorities in the order of A-B-C.... Do A's first...
Handle each piece of paper once daily.
Handle your mail priority... Unattended mail causes stress, set time aside for when you will open and attend to your mails, procrastination results in mails accumulating..
Set deadlines.... This will force you to accomplish projects quickly.
Think.... How can I do it better? Set quality time aside to think about creative ways to improve the performance of your organization.. Peak performance comes through pondering. This may well proved to be invaluable to you.. When you are relaxed brain storm your situation, you will be amazed at the ideas that will spring to light.
You don't have to attend every meeting..... Be very selective regarding meetings.. Probably about half of them don't needs your attendance, someone else can go in your place and give you the reports.
Control Visitors... This is a fast line and often in sharing and wasting time ... Can I have a moment of your time? Is the opening line that can interrupted your valuable time each day..
Invest your time where it pay most... Often we invest huge amount of time where there is little returns on the efforts. You may have to spend time doing some honest thinking to analyse your time investments. Do not waste your high energy hours, invest them where they will produce the highest pay off.
Delegate Responsibility..... Achievers make the most use of their time by sharing their workload.. Then you must allow your team to put their personal stamp on projects assigned to them.. try and set completion times for your accomplishments.
Control Your Anger
A man and his wife had argument @ home, after 20mins, the man went to the bathroom to bath....
When he was having his bath, he slumped inside the bathroom.....He called his wife, but his wife did not respond....
His wife yelled "don't call my name, just leave me alone"...
The woman did not know the reason why her husband was calling her, but she failed to answer him because she was still mad at her husband....
After one hour, she noticed that her husband had not come out of the bathroom, she called his name no answer...
She left what she was doing and went to check him......
When she entered the bathroom, she saw her husband on the floor....
She called his name and shook him, the man refused to wake....She shouted & ran out to call their neighbors.....
Her husband had already died, because his body was cold....
No matter how angry or sad 😭 you are, never neglect to attend to people who call you for help, if the woman had attended to her husband on time, she would have taken the man to hospital 🏥 and he would have survived.....
When someone calls you on phone, do not ignore, or say you are too busy, because you don't know the kind of information they want to pass on to you.
When you see their missed call, try to return it, just to know the reason why they called.....
You may never know, if someone needs help or wants you to rescue or the person is in danger and wants you to contact security...
Don't live a life of "I don't care"....
Wise up
In a relationship, I prefer to love genuinely as a lady but as for guys i think its in their nature to cheat. 98% of guys must cheat while only 3% will join the first 2% if they are happily married but others if you like do series of styles in bed, so as to gain the guys attentions that doesn't mean that he will fall for you genuinely, Guys have different ways of carrying out their characters, he will frame up different lies. He's not afraid of you. Can you beat him? Thts why we ladies should be very careful before allowiñg any guys into our lifes..... Believe me some guys out there are ready to sex sampled different girls during their bachelor's hood.. So Ladies wise up
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