Firstly: is the confusion of choice, where a lady has many suitors she may become confused as to which of these suitors will be the best for her, what is needed here is prayer with fasting for God's leading.
Secondly: Some are too proud to accept the will of God for their lives, because the man at that particular time may not have all the lady's heart desires, or meet all the conditions of her dream man. Again this could make her loose the chance of getting married to the right person, and once a lady or man misses it at the start, this costly mistake will colour every aspect of her life. A lady is expected to follow her first mind and should not discuss this with all her friends, some of these issues are best dealt with in prayer.
Thirdly: Another reason why a lady may remain single is that of her beauty without manners, once a lady allows her beauty to get into her head she will find it difficult to be humble because she believes her beauty will last forever, no man marries a woman because she is flashy or beautiful, what every man is looking for in a woman is character, respect and good manners, not mary kay beauty, even when the right person comes she will be too busy with make up kits to recognize the divine presence. Fourtly: Bad company is another reason a lady may remain single for a long time, if a lady has friends who believed in clubbing and night life styles she will definitely have the problem of settling down with a man.
** Greed & over ambition could also be responsible for delayed marriage, if a lady has the habit of looking for a ready made man she may end up a loser at the end.
** Where a lady is not cultured, and well raised by her parents, and therefore cannot take care of a home, a man will cleverly disengaged from the relationship. No lady can use sex to hold a man down, not even pregnancy, every lady must know that marriage comes at a cost. You must be willing to pay the price of marriage because no man wants a rude and contentious woman for a wife.
**The Bible says it is better for a man to dwell in the wilderness than to dwell in a wide house with a brawling woman. A lady who is not ready to be submissive can't live under a man no matter how beautiful she is.
**Some are lazy and dirty these ones know that they are not wife materials and would rather go to the streets cover up their short comings which will later back fire on them. Therefore Ladies be humble so as to see a man that will build your own family with you on time.
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